It’s the classic case of where a girl feels suffocated, and all the guy does is try harder, suffocating her even more. They don’t want a guy that tries to satisfy their every need.They don’t want a guy that worries whether they’re mad or not.We often tend to give it our everything and connect to our beloved like we’ve never connected before.In reality that’s our inner insecurities surfacing, and it freaks women out over the long term.My girlfriend left me for another guy and it was devastating.It’s one thing to be on the receiving end of a breakup.
You, on the other hand, are a deer caught in the headlights.
My girlfriend left me for someone else, and the intense, debilitating pain I went through was the catalyst for this blog. If that sounds familiar, you’ve come to the right place. Because it’s normal to feel sad and depressed after a breakup. These days may be the hardest but it keeps getting easier and easier. I know you guys might have said you were soulmates. There are a million guys that walked that path before you my friend. What’s more, thinking in terms of the one is irrational.
In addition I’ve talked to a lot of guys that have gone through similar experiences and I truly believe it is one of the most painful experiences available to the male human being. (I couldn’t cover all there is to know in this article. The reality is you’re going to feel like shit for a while. And if you put the tools and techniques on this site to work, you’ll become a better man because of it! There are literally millions of guys out there who thought some girl was ‘the one’ and who got hit by reality. In fact it’s far more likely you haven’t met a whole lot of people.
Not only do you have to deal with feelings of rejection of being dumped, and feelings of loneliness and loss associated with the breakup, you ALSO have to deal with feelings of ineptitude, insignificance and betrayal. But the second time around they’ll have some more perspective, and they’ll realize that it might feel that way, but that doesn’t make it accurate.
It’s brutal, and if it’s happened to you, I feel for you. The emotional pain was so bad it turned into physical pain combined with the worst types of anxiety I have ever experienced. You’re going to deal with your breakup and move on. The truth is, most guys need to cut their teeth on a couple of relationships before they settle down.